Women In Black

Adult Friends, Chosen Family

• WIB • Season 1 • Episode 16

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This week, we're diving DEEP into the friendship timeline — from the childhood crew that grew up with us to the adult friends who walked into our lives right when we needed them most. 💕✨

We’re talking:
 • Why childhood friendships sometimes fade
 • Why adult friendships hit different (growth, grace, and accountability!)
 • Being the “guys’ girl,” church friends, team friends, and “old lady gang” friends
 • What happens when motherhood, life transitions, and distance reshape your circle
 • How insecurity, growth, culture, and lived experience all play a role
 • Why having good friends is a blessing — no matter when they arrive

This episode is filled with laughs, stories, and the most relatable friendship revelations. Whether your childhood friends still rock with you, your adult friends are your whole lifeline, or you’re rebuilding your circle from scratch — this one is for YOU.

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SPEAKER_02:

Let me tell y'all, my adult friends, the ones I really got to choose, the ones that came from different backgrounds, my old lady gang, them are they are my dogs. Like me and you, my this is my adulthood friend, like my Philly adult friends, like them, they are my dogs.

SPEAKER_01:

I guess I'm blessed to have some good ones that's still hanging in.

SPEAKER_02:

If you got some good friends, you're blessed. It's a blessing to have good friends because everybody don't have real good friends.

SPEAKER_01:

My siblings are my closer friends.

SPEAKER_02:

I always wanted a sister. I don't want to talk to him for weeks. Why? Why do you keep saying this, sir? I used to. I don't think like that no more.

SPEAKER_00:

Woman in black is where we put down the cape and pick up the mic, being authentically who we are, where we are, unmasked, unfiltered, and unapologetic.

SPEAKER_01:

How was your week, Miss Josh Lynn? That's what my kids be calling.

SPEAKER_02:

I know.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah, Jace is consistent. I love it.

SPEAKER_02:

Yeah, Jace is consistent.

SPEAKER_01:

I love it.

SPEAKER_02:

Yeah, he is. Auntie Death. Yeah. It worries my heart. You wanna know why? Oh. Oh, it makes it even better and more special. And he has like aunts on the other side, but he don't need them as often.

SPEAKER_01:

Wow. That right now I feel special. Because you know what? My older two nephews are sons. It took us forever to get to call me Auntie.

SPEAKER_02:

My God, my godson. Like, I don't know what I was thinking when he was a baby by letting him just call me Jocelyn. Cause he does it too. And it's like, it's I ain't gonna change it. He know who I am. I don't take it as a sign of disrespect. This is my baby.

SPEAKER_01:

He knows like my nephews when they what's up. I see that auntie dads come across. I started giggling, okay? I be cracking up. But Dom Dom told him if y'all come in this house, you better put an auntie before the dad. That bothers some people, right? Everything bothers Dom. Dom is so structured when it comes to discipline. I'm like, oh no.

SPEAKER_02:

No, in general, that bothers people. Like it bothers sometimes. Duty's friends used to be like, Josh. Oh, okay. That don't bother me. Right, right. And then my other friends be like, you let them call you Josh. They know not to disrespect me. Like they know that we are not equal.

SPEAKER_03:

Right.

SPEAKER_02:

Like, there's not this rule that they had. Like now they be like Miss Josh, but I got my one boy, Zoe. He'd be like, Big Josh. Like, that's my dog. Like, he don't have to call me like Miss Josh. Like, I'm okay with that. Yeah. And it's like somebody's dumb hero. I know. I know because my cousin that was on the football team that day, he was like, Josh, he was talking about when you in this office, you call her Miss Josh. I was like, you know that's your little cousin. That's my little cousin. Yeah. So sometimes in for my older cousins, we'll put like cousin in front of their name or something like that. But it does, it literally does not bother me right when the older kids just be like Josh, or especially kids that don't really know me. Yeah. That doesn't bother me. It doesn't. Yeah. Like, because people have called me worse.

SPEAKER_01:

Your expectations have gone.

SPEAKER_02:

I call bad at you. People have called me worse. And I would rather somebody call me Josh. A kid called me Josh, and when they see me, they know we respect her. Then a kid in my face, like Miss Josh, but they cussing up a storm in my face, not giving two craps.

SPEAKER_01:

It just don't matter to me. It's not me. But I mean, I I feel that way about a lot of stuff too. Yeah, it just doesn't matter. I get it. Yeah, I'm just that it is funny. Yeah. But yeah, Jay's dad's best and nephew.

SPEAKER_02:

Now, if my friends would prefer my kids to say Miss Brittany or you know what I mean, something like that. That's what you're gonna do. You're gonna out of respect, you're not gonna call her Britney, you're gonna say Miss Brittany. Right. Something like that. But I don't care. And she don't play with her kids, though. Miss Josh, because she do not play, she don't play with them kids. No. Call her Josh to the other kids. Girl, uh, it's okay. Right. Yeah, she don't play that. But yeah, um, yeah. My week is good. It's chilling. Yeah, yeah, it's chilling. The holidays are coming up. Um, so how do you feel? You know, there's this big thing. I always see reels and TikToks and stuff. I know you do. Like the division. It's not a division, it's a comparison. Like your adulthood friends, like, okay, I seen a boat. They were on a boat, right? These girls were on a boat, and they made like this little music video, and it was like the childhood friends going at the uh adulthood friends of this lady, like so. It was a some song, and they was like checking it off, and the childhood friends was going like this, and then the adult friends got up and was like dancing in their face. Like, I know her better. You know her better. I'm gonna have to send it to Nia so you can see it. Yeah, yeah. Um, but like let's get into those adulthood friends, like the difference between your childhood friends and your adulthood friends.

SPEAKER_01:

Like, that's yeah, that's wild. That's I I I'll be honest with you. I had some great childhood friends. I think the high school era is when it's maybe not even high school, early 20s is when stuff started getting complicated. Yeah, yeah. I was good. Like my I told you, I went to that special school. We all were singled out to go there.

SPEAKER_02:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

So we was all a little quirky. Even the the um, we were, even the cute ones, like even the because we we just we didn't know it, but it was no look, you didn't look the type, you thought the type. Like, so it was all of us in that class. Other people used to like try to make fun of us and stuff like that. You couldn't make fun of me, you could try, but it just didn't even stick. I was cool with everybody. I was one of those, I was cool with everybody. The people what we considered the regular classes, and then us cool with everybody. So um, when it came to friendships, I had friends uptown, I had friends in the bill, I had friends down bottom, I had friends. I used to be everywhere, I was in every activity. I was in so my close friends I met through like activities I was in. So whether I was dancing or I was going to church, and therefore my church was like a pretty big church. So I had friends in Plainfield and Elizabeth, Broadway, Lyndon. We meeting up. Like I was that child. I had friends everywhere, like Nia. I was like Nia. Um, so my close friends, that people who really knew me, we probably were probably um ones who were in my class, though. That uh we all were in the same class from fourth to eighth grade. So I had the same friends.

SPEAKER_02:

Gotcha. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

The close friends, like my best friends, I was in the same class as them for like five years. Fourth, sixth, seven, the fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, eighth. Yeah, five years. We're in the same class. Um the same students. We switched classes.

SPEAKER_02:

We ain't switched classes, we switched teachers. Gotcha. So the same group went to a the same teacher, a different teacher together. Together. Gotcha.

SPEAKER_01:

Ridiculous. Gotcha. Um, so yeah. Um yeah, I was I was very popular. Yeah. And so I had my friends. Um, yeah, so in my after-school program, I would do at a different school, the school closer to my house. So when I got off the bus, I would go to after school program at the school I was I went to before I took that test. And in that school, they were a lot more um cultured, I would say. Like they they knew stuff I didn't know. I I don't want to say I was naive, but they exposed me to stuff I'm like, yo, what? That's when you get the little boyfriends and stuff out of the school. Yeah, because they're not friends, yeah. And they start like some of them like me because they didn't see me all day. And then I'm popping up and they like, oh, who that? Who your friend? You know what I'm saying? But anyway, um, yeah, the childhood friends, we connected off of activities. We connected because we was forced in the same class. Yeah, adult friends. Now, some of my friends from high school are still my adult friends. Don't get me wrong. The only thing that caused us to have a divide is distance and family life, I feel. Gotcha. Some of us still have the same interests. Like, if they lived closer, I might still hang out with them. If they ended my friends know who they are. Right, exactly. You know what I'm saying? Like, we we got group chat, we got certain things now. We be annoying each other. I'm sorry for everything I did to y'all. Whatever it might have been. It's nothing ever too serious, right? Like, we would pick up over, yeah. Yeah, like maybe I said something about the bill when we went out, like stuff like that.

SPEAKER_02:

Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah, I don't come on now. Now y'all know them bills. Shoot. But um, nothing crazy. Now, I do love my adult friendships, but I say, like, you know me more, you I would say you know the essence because I know how to communicate now, too. You know the essence of who I am and who I want to be.

SPEAKER_02:

Right. Right.

SPEAKER_01:

I think they seen me through every season up until this point. Now, some of them may still see me as the little deads or whatever. Um, but some some of them have seen me grow and they understand their position, and my life might have changed a little bit. But I will say most of my friends, 90% of my friends still support me. Right. And I don't know if it's because of how I showed up to them as a friend or or just I don't know. I really can't tell you. But I will say 90% of them still support me. It's a couple that fell off basically, just didn't work anymore. Yeah, or we had a conflict and it was just like, I don't really like how you acted in that situation. Gotcha. And you're not growing.

SPEAKER_02:

That's that's a big that's a big one, right?

SPEAKER_01:

That's a big it's like you're not growing, and I don't want to do those things that you're doing, right? Yeah, right. And I don't really feel bad about it. I just kind of wish that sometimes I wish I still had my friend in this season, but God sent me a new one.

SPEAKER_02:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

Because I got excited. I get excited. I get excited. I'm already go ahead, girl. Tell me about childhood versus adulthood friends. What they say about you, who gonna win? Is it gonna be winning? Is it gonna be a winner?

SPEAKER_02:

My adult friends gonna win. They're gonna win. My adult friends are gonna win because my childhood friends, like, I'm a people, so I'm a people's person. I'm friendly, but I'm not really nice.

SPEAKER_01:

Like, so you really had to find your tribe.

SPEAKER_02:

Yeah, so I I found my childhood tribe, right? Found my childhood tribe, but like my childhood friends, like when I see them, it's all love, it's cool, but it's not on those like daily bases, like monthly bases. It's just like now our kids are growing up and it's like, oh, it's like your son, my daughter, my my son, your daughter, whatever. My childhood friends, like I I still I'm close to like um my godbrother that lives in Cali. That man right, that boy right there been daycare enough. Wow. You know what I mean? And my like, you know, like my other childhood friends that came with me into adulthood. Um it's not a lot of them. Like, so it's just like when I see the other ones, it was, you know, we was I'm I've always been a guy's girl. I had in elementary school, I had um they were guys too. I had like maybe three girlfriends from elementary to middle school. It was so bad one time. This girl had a sleepover. We was like in the fifth grade or sixth grade or something, and she invited everybody except me and my two friends. It was three of us. It was three of us. She invited everybody but us. Why? I don't know, probably had something to do with me. I don't know, but she invited everybody but us, and I can't, and now you know what? Now we know why she invited them. But I can't say it on the camera. She likes girls, yes. Oh, okay. So she knew we weren't into that, probably. And she was like, let me see what I can do over there. Yeah, she was like, three of us went to church, all three of us into the same church at that. So she was like, damn.

SPEAKER_01:

But she knew she was, she knew that wasn't her tribe.

SPEAKER_02:

But yeah, so she didn't invite us, but we ended up having to sleep over together, the three of us. And we was like, we don't care anyway. She didn't invite us, right? So those two people, when I see them, um, you know, I it's all love. Like when I'm around them, it's all love. Like it's no bad, no ill intent, no bad will, or whatever. But let me tell y'all, my adult friends, the ones I really got to choose, the ones that came from different backgrounds, my old lady gang, them are they are my dogs. Like me and you, my this is my adulthood friend, like my Philly adult friends, like them, they are my dogs. Like they probably my childhood friends know me growing from a child to a a teen mom. And you think do you think they put you in that box?

SPEAKER_01:

They kept you in that box as a teen mom.

SPEAKER_02:

Yeah, probably something like that. I don't know. I don't even care what box they put me in. I don't know. Probably don't care. I love them. Love y'all when I see y'all, like still my people still, whatever. But my adult friends, they get me together. Like even Brit, let's say Brit. Knewer all my life, but we were not friends. Okay. Like we weren't close, we grew closer in my adult years, so it's just like adulthood. Like my my adult friends are lit. My adult, this adulting thing, we be life be life in, but my adult friends, y'all are real MVPs. That's funny. And I have like my friends, I think I told you two of my friends were all 10 years apart.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02:

And it's so funny because he's 25, I'm 35, she's 45. Like, it's just so funny, but I appreciate them because all of us can even you, all of my adult friends, we can talk about outlived experiences and help each other grow and give each other that grace and that reassurance that wow, you went through that, it's okay. Or maybe you're reacting this way because this is triggering you because you went through this. So, adult friendship to me, like you love your childhood friends, you love them. And if they make it to the to the adulthood, cool. But if they don't, you still you love them. Yeah, but my adult friends, the ones that my mom didn't choose, the church didn't choose, none of that, them my people.

SPEAKER_01:

Right.

SPEAKER_02:

Them, they are my people's.

SPEAKER_01:

Like awesome. I I love that for me. I I think when I hear you talk, I feel like we kind of have the reverse, not in friendships, but the amount of friends. Like I growing up, I had a lot of friends. I had a lot of friend groups. Probably where I got most friendliest in high school. Like I was bouncing around, I was doing everything. So, like my circle was big. So I could chill here, chill there. I didn't have a lot of close relationships with friends. When I got in high school, I did have like one or two best friends, but I still hung with everybody. My best friend, I I'm I probably drove her crazy because she's a very territorial, right? So in high school and early turns, very territorial. So it's like, you better not have no other best friend. Why you hanging out with him? Why did I hate out with anybody who knows her already know what I'm talking about? Right, right. So, but I I had a full life, so I was I was out and about. I had a lot of friends. As I'm older, I have you. Have you oh okay, and my sisters when it comes to that closer, okay, yeah, who I talk to at least once a week or something like that. Now, that wider circle of friends, I talk, I I love them dearly. We still connect, but I probably talk to them once a month, maybe twice a month. And I probably won't, I don't probably go in detail about my business, but I know I can go to them for certain things and they'll show up.

SPEAKER_02:

Absolutely.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah, and so it's just well to backtrack, I had friends.

SPEAKER_02:

I did have childhood friends, but they it was more guy, it was more guys. Oh, yeah, you said that. So it's like um my guy brother again, when his mom went somewhere and all the guys went, I went too. Packed me up in that truck, right? And we were going together. She always be like, she'd be like, because killer was right in the truck with us, killer was right there. Like, so I had friends. Um I had friends. The people that thought I was mean and my mouth was so smart, my mouth stayed smart, my mouth's still smart. It is what it is, but that's a them problem. But I was real likable. I was likable. It was just those other people with them insecurities. They ain't know it was called insecurities back then, but we know it is now. It was them, yeah, you know what I mean. But other than that, I like I I've always been outgoing, always in everything, always want to do everything. Um, it's just the having brothers, everybody always watching you, all that kind of thing. You know what I mean? So now I'm grown. Me and my adult friends can do what we want to do.

SPEAKER_01:

I ain't had nobody watching me.

SPEAKER_02:

What?

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah, oh geez, I can't tell that story on here. Don't you dare. But um, but yeah, no, I I I just had a lot of friends. Male and female, because I was such a tomboy, so I I did also have a lot of guy friends, but I still was. A girl, so I had a lot of girlfriends because dance ain't like two guys in it, but yeah, I was an athlete, so my friends today are my track team. Gotcha. So it's guys and girls, right? And so, and that's a conversation. Thankfully, my husband just fit right in with us because it is half guys, half girls. That's just what it is. Um, so yeah, I feel I'm glad I had nobody watching me though.

SPEAKER_02:

Like, but like my sweet 16, because back then nobody really had sweet. When my mom pitched the idea of me having a sweet 16, I was so mad because it was a ceremony, it was this whole long drawn-out thing. I was mad. Like, nobody does this, nobody does this. Like, let's just have a party. Well, after I did mine, everybody else wanted to have sweet 16s and stuff. But my sweet 16, it was so many kids there, we were like over capacity, right? You you seen that picture I sent you of uh boo-boo. Like, I forgot he was even there. That was it was so many people at my sweet 16, so very likable, you know what I mean. But my I'm telling you, I'm and nothing towards my childhood friends because I love y'all still to this day, but I am live having a grand old time over here with my adult friends. Yeah, I love my adult. I love all of y'all, but this season in this season of adulthood and stuff like that, I love I would, I wouldn't, um I wouldn't trade my adulthood friends for my childhood friends.

SPEAKER_01:

I would be in so much mess if I did that.

SPEAKER_02:

So like I just I would try to combine them.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah, like I know I could I could invite you over the next time we have a wallin' out party or game night or something like that. It's been a while because my life just been in transition, right? But like I know that if I have friends giving here and you came, you would fit right in. Yeah, because we doing karaoke, we doing wildin' out, right? Right. Acting up, yeah, yeah. We playing all the games, we doing Jenga.

SPEAKER_02:

And that's me. So, and that's that is my adult, my adulthood friends. Like my childhood friends, when I was with the boys, it was more sports things, it was more that, you know what I mean? So the girl, my girl childhood friends, we just had sleepovers, and then I became a mom. When I became a mom, I was still in high school, so I looked at them weird because they was still living their lives and stuff, and I was a mom. And I think that's where the cutoff happened of us hanging out as much. Because when I got pregnant, people showed me their true colors. They was they was doing the most back then. Yeah, that's so crazy. Like my childhood friends didn't even show up to my baby shower. Really? Allegedly, they were invited, but I'm not sure what happened. But maybe they parent.

SPEAKER_01:

I don't know, but my mom figured it out. They had a baby shower for me at the teen center.

SPEAKER_02:

No, my mom, because you know, I told you I never wanted really, I never wanted for nothing. Nice old restaurant. The food you would the food was there, like nothing had to be bought. You didn't have to bring nothing but a gift. So no, it was all adults. Um, that's it.

SPEAKER_01:

That's wild. Yeah, but I also I looked at it. I don't care though.

SPEAKER_02:

My baby duty was good, still good. He came early. It just opened my eyes. So my eyes opened then, and then um yeah. I don't know. I'm just a guy's girl anyway. I love my my close friends, and I love I love older friends. Like all my adult friends are older than me. And I just love it. I love to sit at tables with people who are on a different level from me. Yeah, because I like to learn from people. I like to listen, I like to learn.

SPEAKER_01:

It's so I you know, crazy. Like, I have mentors who are I have mentors who are older than me, but I I'm not hanging out with them. Like, I forgot I got two different lives. I got the business life where we go like I could, but it's just not the environment. Like, I can't bring my mentor to the Chris Brown concert, or we're not going to concerts together. We don't like the same music. We totally different generations.

SPEAKER_02:

Okay. Like, so because I'm an old soul, I can go to a concert with my mentors. That's it. And I don't have they could come with me because they would just come. Like, yeah, Josh, we do it. And they're older in the church and everything. We went to, they probably have a very they're culturally aligned with US. Yeah, they are. Um really, you know, they got it going on. Like, lives are just amazing. They got it going on. But we went to me and one of them, two of them, we went to South Carolina to um a black food truck festival together, and we drove down there, we drove back, we stayed in the same room. I love that for y'all, yes, and then my other mentor, like, she's Jay's godmom. And she, but she'd look at me like a daughter, yeah. So, yeah, I can't do certain things for her because she'd be like, Joshua, like, yeah, that's what she called me when she got mad. Um, but the other one, like, girl, yes, yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

I don't have that type of relationship. I keep it, but I I when you can't have that relationship, it's cool.

SPEAKER_02:

But if you can't, it's still cool because they still your mentors, yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

Like, we just have a different type of relationship. Yeah, it's it, yeah. And and that's okay because we would do dinner and brunch any day.

SPEAKER_02:

And they'll get me together real fast.

SPEAKER_01:

Real fast. But yeah, yeah, but anyway, so friends, um, I I guess I'm blessed to have some good ones that's still hanging in.

SPEAKER_02:

If you got some good friends, you blessed. Like, it's a blessing. Thank God it's a blessing to have good friends because everybody don't have real good friends, so it's a blessing to have good friends, yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

And my siblings are my closest friends.

SPEAKER_02:

Oh my I always wanted a sister growing up.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah, well, you're close with your brother though. It's different though.

SPEAKER_02:

I know it is different.

SPEAKER_01:

Well, I'll be on the phone with my brother. We was on phone for like an hour and a half.

SPEAKER_02:

I'm like, oh geez, every last time my brother be like, You think like me. I don't want to talk to him for weeks. Cause why? Why do you keep saying this, sir? I used to. I don't think like that no more.

SPEAKER_01:

My brother be like, Okay, I need to understand the woman perspective. Because I'm about to lose my mind.

SPEAKER_02:

No, he don't do that. He started off with because I was just wondering, right? Like, sis, like, and I'm like, mm-hmm. He's like, because you think like me, right, sis. Yeah, no, my other brother does that too. My oldest brother, he does that too. I'm like, y'all are so aggy. Love him. It was too much testosterone in the house. It was, and then I'm like, me and my youngest brother, he's older than me. We are we're five years apart, so everybody's so much older than me. Like, literally, you really they was like hawks. They was like you couldn't do nothing. I don't even know how I got pregnant, jumped off the porch pregnant. As soon as I hopped off the porch, right? Just literally, like pregnant. That was horrible.

SPEAKER_03:

It was like low weird, but yeah, my brothers, they weren't my friends.

SPEAKER_02:

My brothers were my dads. Yeah. And when I got grown enough, I used to be like, you're not, not even when I was grown. Because my mouth, you're not my dad. Like, that was my biggest thing. You think you're my dad, you're not my dad. Like, you are not my dad. That's my biggest thing. Y'all not my dad.

SPEAKER_01:

Dad. My brothers. Yeah. Me and Carrie used to run in town.

SPEAKER_02:

We was just like, if I had a sister, but thank God my I told you about my one brother with my two sisters. And then my other brother, I got a real good sis over there too. So thank God for them, and thank God for y'all, and thank God for my friends that turn sisters and stuff like left a pen for yourself. Yes, because I've really always wanted a sister. I might gotta give Jayce that sibling because I know you don't want him to feel like that. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

I probably won't. But listen, if it happens, if it's God's will. Whatever. You fall in love. Listen. Because Lord knows I was like, dang, I gotta get this man a baby. I might gotta give him two.

SPEAKER_02:

I mean gonna come with a kid. That's yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

My husband and damn for having kids.

SPEAKER_02:

He might come with a grandkid.

SPEAKER_01:

He might come with a grandkid.

SPEAKER_02:

Because kids is having kids. He might be a few years older than me and he might have started young like I did. He might come with a grand. Oh my God. And that would be fluffy. Oh my granddaughter. She's gonna call me fluffy. Like, that's my fluffy. Yeah, come on, baby. Yeah, she's gonna call me fluffy. I like that for me. I love that for you. Fluffy, come on, baby. All I see is marshmallows. Oh yeah. And it's gonna be a girl, my step-grandbaby. But she's not gonna be my step. She's gonna be my bonus grand.

SPEAKER_01:

I know that's right. Maybe God just created us to be moms and stuff. Because why we respond that way? And they're dreaming about being fluffy and stuff. You already had a name picked up.

SPEAKER_02:

For all my grandkids, though. They're gonna be like, I wanna go with fluffy.

SPEAKER_01:

Everybody doesn't have the calling to be a mom or yeah, everybody.

SPEAKER_02:

Um when I used to work um on a labor and delivery unit, they used to be like, you gotta get a driver's license for this, you gotta get a permit for this, but you could just anybody could just have a kid. You should have to get a driver's license or a permit to have a kid because some parents should not be parents, right? And that's a different topic. But yes, all right.

SPEAKER_01:

Well, listen, we just had a whole conversation. I hope y'all was able to see y'all life in us because and if my friends watch it, I love y'all. Hey, and if you're a new friend, just hey Ty.

SPEAKER_02:

I gotta tell Ty hi because I'll never be mentioning Ty like this, but that's my girl. Like, that's my girl. Because we from north, Ty not from north, she from West. I'm from No, I'm not she from the birds. I just like saying that. Like, cause Billy is a whole different culture. It is. Y'all gotta get into that. If you ain't tried it, go ahead and cross that bridge. It's different over there. I love it, and I like to come right back home too.

SPEAKER_01:

But yeah, like everything but the traffic.

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Joshlin Bartley

Co-host